
I've spent years tweaking this butter pecan cake till it's now my go-to showstopper. The soft buttery texture matched with zesty cream cheese icing makes an unbeatable combo. While I've posted numerous stacked cakes on my site including my coffee-soaked cake and veggie-packed cake, this one's extra special to me. For something easier, try my rustic pear bake or my berry breakfast cake – both are total winners.
What Makes This Cake Irresistible
What makes this cake stand out is how we brown the pecans until they get nice and fragrant. Mix that with butter and you get this amazing nutty flavor that makes your home smell wonderful. Using whole milk keeps everything soft and moist inside. The cream cheese icing brings just enough zip to cut through the sweetness. I really love how flexible this recipe is – switch up how you top it and you've got something that works for any party or gathering.
Basic Ingredients You'll Want
- Unsalted butter: This forms the base of our cake and gives it that lovely richness.
- Granulated sugar: Helps everything get airy and soft.
- Large eggs: Use them cold from the fridge for better mixing.
- Vanilla extract: The real stuff works best if you can swing it.
- All-purpose flour: Nothing fancy needed here.
- Baking powder: This makes our cake puff up nicely.
- Salt: Just a bit enhances all the tastes.
- Whole milk: Keeps your cake super soft and juicy.
- Dark rum: Skip it if you want, but it adds nice depth.
- Chopped pecans: Brown them first for amazing flavor.
- Cream cheese: Get the full-fat kind for the best icing.
- Powdered sugar: Creates that velvety smooth topping.
First Steps
Start by warming your oven to 350°F. Next, get your two 9-inch round pans ready with butter and flour. This might seem like a small detail but it's super important for getting your cakes out easily later.
Mixing Your Cake Mix
Take your mixer and beat the butter with sugar until it looks pale and fluffy, about 3 minutes does the trick. Drop in your eggs one at a time, making sure each one is fully mixed in. Add vanilla last. I always enjoy watching this part as everything comes together into a smooth, creamy blend.

Combining Dry Stuff
Mix flour, baking powder and salt in another bowl. Now for the back and forth bit - add some dry mix to your butter mixture, then some milk, and keep going like this. Always start and finish with the dry stuff. Gently stir in those tasty browned pecans at the end. You'll notice the most amazing smell right about now.
Baking Time
Divide your mix between the pans and stick them in the oven. They'll need around 35-40 minutes. You can tell they're done when a toothpick comes out clean and your whole kitchen smells fantastic. Let them sit in the pans for 10 minutes before moving them to a cooling rack.
Whipping Up The Icing
While your cakes cool down, make your icing. Mix your butter and cream cheese until they're completely smooth. Slowly add powdered sugar bit by bit so you don't make a mess. Finish with a dash of vanilla for perfect flavor.
Assembling Your Cake
When everything's cool, cut each cake through the middle. Now you've got four thin layers. Start building your cake by putting lots of icing between each layer. Don't rush this part - taking your time means prettier slices later.
Finishing Touches
Here comes the fun bit - decorating! Stick pecans around the sides and arrange some on top too. Sometimes I pour some caramel over the edges - it's the same sweet sauce I put on my chocolate meringue desserts and it works great here.

Easy Swaps
Need a gluten-free version? Any decent measure-for-measure flour blend works fine here. Sometimes I throw in some cinnamon or a splash of bourbon for something different. If pecans are too expensive or hard to get, walnuts work great too - I swap them in all the time.
Pro Tips From My Kitchen
From my years cooking professionally, I've picked up some tricks. Brown those pecans until you can really smell them - it makes such a difference. Always put parchment on the bottom of your pans even after greasing and flouring. Keep your cake in the middle of the oven and turn the pans halfway through cooking time.
Storage Tips
Your cake will stay good in the fridge for 5 days if you keep it in an airtight container. Want to save it longer? Wrap unfrosted layers in plastic wrap and they'll last 3 months in the freezer. If you've already iced it, cut it first then wrap each piece. Just let it thaw in the fridge overnight before you want to eat it.
Troubleshooting Help
If your cake seems a bit dry, brush the layers with simple syrup before adding icing. Not sure if it's baked through? Lightly touch the top - it should spring back. The edges will also start pulling away from the pan. These are my favorite ways to check if a cake is perfectly done.

Closing Thoughts
Experience fluffy cake accented by the crunch of pecans, all enveloped in creamy frosting. A centerpiece dessert for unforgettable moments.
Common Recipe Questions
- → Is it possible to prepare this ahead?
Absolutely! You can bake it up to 5 days before and refrigerate. Just let it sit at room temperature before serving so it tastes its best.
- → What’s the purpose of toasting pecans?
Toasting makes them taste richer and enhances their crunch by bringing out natural oils. This elevates the cake’s overall nutty flavor.
- → Can the layers of this cake be frozen?
Yes, the layers freeze wonderfully for up to 3 months. Double-wrap them in plastic and foil. When ready, thaw fully before assembling.
- → What if I’m skipping the rum?
Rum is optional! You can leave it out or swap it with vanilla or maple flavoring to create a different depth of taste.
- → Why should cream cheese soften first?
Softened cream cheese mixes seamlessly with butter and sugar, avoiding lumps. That’s the key to achieving a silky-smooth frosting.